16th GIR.B UNDER 21 DAY - Do not ever grow if we do not understand why this sucks Training (4-4-2): 1. Prencipe 2. Mariani 3. Gralschelli 4. Nikolla 5. Basilicata 6. Corby 7. Maggioni 8. Jericho 9. Luini 10. Crippa 11. Salem
Bench: 12. Netherlands 13. Chiariello 14. Didio 15. Scialpi 16. Gasparini 17. Scorcia 18. Semeraro
Substitutions: Chiariello-Salem, Maggioni, Semeraro, Luini-Scorcia
Booked: Basilicata, Prencipe
Expelled: Jericho
Scorers: Crippa (25 'st), Nikova (39' st)
I have my own personal policy for years that I try to follow. Not so much because the role of coach I am required to have an attitude always measured, but rather because I feel the need to be on the field that are also out. And since I believe to be an educated and rational person, I demand from myself by my behavior in that area clear as the same image. Do not have an air of holiness, for God's sake, but Sunday after Sunday I try to improve it: not enough to know the material, how to expose, to be able to plan training sessions interesting, engaging and useful to the objectives. I am convinced that the role of the coach has in itself an educational role at any level. The captain, the leader of the group must keep a positive attitude to convey what it really should teach the sport in general.
It 's easy to blame the young, often their only responsibility we have to run your nell'ingenuità to the adult who is ready to make them stumble. Although this is useful and necessary to hang when it is needed, of their responsibility: I am convinced will always be commensurate with age.
why I should refuse to talk to opposing players. I believe helps to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and easy, as many Sundays I've noticed, resulting in nervousness. It 'stupid and irresponsible to raise the tone of a football game when the field is not you're there, when you are behind the white line that divides you from the players. E 'irresponsible to leave the kids at the mercy of a nervous crafted by an adult. An adult should be responsible and the pattern of behaviors expressed in the field, even before the schemes and tactics.
Also avoid arguing with the referee. Sure, I repeat not in the air of sanctity, in the competitive tension of the game the protest is part of the game. But I always try to make it as polite as possible. And when I can not, are the first to apologize and admit my responsibility.
E 'right here, from responsibility, which I try manage my relationship with the group as a referee. Because you know, these kids are born in a society and immersed in a culture where it is always the fault of those who have to decide.
Unable to prevent players protest, said the protest and feeling like part of the game, I demand my own way by the education of my players. Sometimes I succeed, others less so. But it's what the players know that you want them to make a difference. I have a way of claiming my own, I am not a dictator, I do not think those who call themselves "democratic dictators", but I am convinced that the step to make the players aware of what you expect from them is sharing. And they are convinced that the next session this week, when we inevitably talk about what happened Sunday we will be able to share and agree on what were our mistakes and our responsibilities.
is still the responsibility. I want a team nailed their responsibilities.
For this I am very careful what they say, Origlio in the locker room at the end of matches and training sessions, because I want to know what they think my boys. Thank goodness this year I never had anger, but to become a beast if I ever try to find an alibi in arbitration in the flask, in bad, to explain a defeat. Glued to our responsibilities, take on "the sins" of a failure, and try to understand it, is the first step to becoming men.
And again, I believe in the value of that green rectangle between the white lines. I try to always teach them in, you fight, you are helping, you sweat, spit blood, and you take damage, it can also discussed. But when the role of the rectangle ends when the referee whistles the end, that's the line that traces the end of "hostilities". It 'was all over, we return to being students, workers, children and siblings, who share the same passion for football.
What we experienced yesterday was a really bad time. After the fear, the anger remains confident that until the kick is lived by people like those we have met, will never grow. Someone said "the referee was at fault, that ruined the game and broke it nervously," has some other fault to a fault, bad for charity, but still a foul play. And as always, then, and we are masters in Italy, is the fault of someone else. But I, who are accustomed to think of myself and my team, I say that we had a responsibility not to understand that sometimes it is better not to speak, do not try to explain, but quit in the dressing room to shower and leave. Some of us, then, has not been able to avoid falling into enemy provocations.
Tuesday to talk about how we are bound, and all will be glued to their responsibilities.
And surely, even I could get my hand off the bench to the situation in a different way to search for that would not end as it is over. Since who knows me knows that I am not one who likes to raise the tone, yet I'm still wondering what I could do. I will arrive at an answer, but he was unable to turn the tide of this repulsive end of the race is what I regret more! I do not know thing, but I had to do something, and apparently I was not able!
few questions remain open, because I am convinced that young people need to trust, someone who does not tell him "you were wrong", but people who know how to say "you were wrong ... why do not you do more if try to do so ...".
1) What do you have to do with football from the stands that adult children who insult, though opponents, could be their children?
2) What to do with football, but with life in general, a person that descends from the podium in the technical area for punching a guy who has the same age as his son?
3) Why would a guy at the final whistle, instead of greeting his opponents, rushes to the locker room to go and fight with those who are guilty of a foul, he had already paid with the expulsion and the person responsible has not a gesture or a wrinkle, coming immediately from the field?
4) What to do with a football coach who sent the invitation to managers and captains to apologize to the race director was like "I, with your captain I want nothing to do"? Are we not ourselves first, coaches and managers have to lead by example?
5) What to do with the football team an hour after the end of the game waiting for their opponents out of the sports center to try to load them like a herd of buffalo?
Until we can answer these questions, but also to understand why certain things happen, never grow. The football world will remain forever at the mercy of this crap.
I'm sorry not to mention the game for another game badly, very badly. But I think it merits much more space than what is written above.
